Hello Ladies. I'm not sure if you'll remember me or not, but I posted a while back as well. This time, it's a little more serious. I'm 17, and my boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex casually. He does not ejaculate inside of me, but we don't use a condom. I'm not fond of this idea, or really the sex at all, but he loves it..and I love to see him happy. I know he wouldn't break up with me or be mad if I said otherwise..it's just hard to dissapoint him, I guess. ANYWAY - I am about 6 days late on my period. On December 24 I took a home pregnancy test and it was negative. My period was expected on the 21st or 22nd. TODAY (December 26) While I was urinating; I wiped and the toilet paper had blood on it. I expected it to be my period, but I haven't wittnessed any bleeding since. Could this be implantation bleeding? I have also been experiencing abdominal cramps, like I'm getting my period..and my face is a little broken out, which is usually is before I get my period, and my breasts are a little sore, which they usually are before my period as well. Am I pregnant? What should I do? HELP?!
-ashley marie
Friday, December 22, 2006
Ahh, I need help.
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Hi Ashley - welcome back. Smile Happy to help, although bummer you're scared about this again. I would think that it isn't implantation bleeding this late in your cycle...usually that happens before AF is due.
Have you been under a lot of stress with the holidays? If something delayed your ovulation (due to stress, diet change, or illness), it would in turn make AF late. It sounds like AF is on its way - you are having PMS symptoms. They could also be pregnancy symptoms, but since you had a negative test, I doubt that you are pregnant.
How about if you retest 1 week from the last test. If that is negative, and you still don't have AF, I would call your doctor. I'd guess you'll have AF by then though.
As for what you should do, you should use protection. Wink If you want to have premarital sex - that's your choice, although it sounds like if it was up to yuo, you wouldn't want to do it. But at least be responsible about it hon...you don't want a baby right now, and you don't want any diseases either. Even if you are sure your BF is monogomous, there is still a reason to use protection to prevent a pregnancy and a possible abortion. I hope you'll really take that to heart and understand that it's meant with a lot of love. (((Hugs)))
Post again and let us know what happens. Feel free to ask any questions if you have them.
I agree with Rose, trying to make a bf happy is not worth the heartache you will face if you have an unplanned pregnancy. His 5 sec of pleasure is not worth the lifetime of consequences you will face. KWIM? You really should re-evaluate YOUR priorities and either abstain or be more careful when having intercourse. We have a term for people who use the "withdrawal" method...they are called PARENTS. LOL Laughing I don't mean to sound harsh sweetie, but it is your body and you should protect it at all costs. Your choices to make, but you need to choose wisely. Best of luck to ya. (((hugs))) Christine
Okay, so..Today something odd is going on. I'm going through what seems like a "normal" period for me..And I've also got cramps and the whole bit, the only difference is that the discharge, I guess you could call it, isn't "red" it's more of a dark brown..which isn't normal for me at all. Do you know what this could be? And why? By the way..thank you girls so much for all of the help, it really really means alot when you have no one else to turn to!
Brown blood is old blood...it's still okay to have that for your period. This cycle was longer than any other, so that could be why the blood is older looking. If you are still nervous, retest in a couple of days, but I'd say this is likely AF. ((((Hugs))))
Just wanted to let you know that I had a normal period, although it was late, and tested again, just to be sure..and it was negative. I'm so happy. Thanks you girls so much, for everything. <3
Whew! Glad everything worked out hon. Remember our advice to be more careful for next time. (((Hugs))) Happy New Year!
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